No progress

Same old story,things are not improving,As soon as I etablished contact with my kids and thought now I would be able to hold some form of a father daughter relationship with them ,it all stopped up,becouse I sent a web cam in the hope of seeing them in live chat,.strange as it it is their mother stopped to either contact me or answer to my phone calls,now it seems to me hopeless to continue to try to make her understand that it is to the best for the kids and me to maintain a good parent relationship,she defintley decided that the should grow up as white norwegians and adopted to her parents.I cant help except leave them for ever if she would have them that way let it be.I am shocked,exhausted ,and helpless.God bless my little daughters for me they are lost forever